Reconnecting with your child at the end of the school day is a valuable opportunity to strengthen your bond and gain insights into their experiences. Rather than asking the generic question, "How was your day?" try asking more specific questions that encourage detailed responses. For example, inquire about the most exciting thing that happened or a specific activity they enjoyed.   

Other ideas to promote conversations about the day are:

• Initiate the conversation by sharing details about your own day. By being open about your experiences, you create a more inviting atmosphere for your child to reciprocate. This sets the stage for a more open and collaborative conversation. 
• Incorporating creativity can also be beneficial. Encourage your child to express their day through drawing or writing. This alternative method can provide a comfortable outlet for communication. 
• Consider turning the conversation into a game or activity. Engaging in a storytelling session where both you and your child take turns sharing interesting aspects of your respective days can make the interaction more enjoyable and less formal. 
• Establishing a routine for sharing highlights or challenges at a specific time each day can also contribute to a more consistent and open line of communication. Additionally, be patient and understand that some children may need time to process their day before opening up. 
• Lastly, ensure that the environment is comfortable and safe for your child to share. A non-judgmental and supportive atmosphere encourages trust and facilitates meaningful conversations. Tailor these suggestions to suit your child's personality and preferences, and remember that building a routine of open communication takes time and patience.

Renee McGregor

Head of Inclusion